I went in search today of the grave of two of my ancestors – John Hoare and Elizabeth Love – who are buried in the West Dapto Catholic Cemetery, near Wollongong. “Search” is probably not the right word to use since I had a guide, someone who’d been there before, Terry Hore, who also maintains a strong interest in genealogy. Terry and I have been corresponding for a couple of years now, but today was the first time we’d met.
I’d caught the train down, and he’d driven up from Victoria for the annual church service at the cemetery which, sadly, couldn’t go ahead due to the wet conditions over the last few days which had left much of the cemetery bogged. Although called off, we still headed out to the cemetery for a look around. But not before first going to meet up with some other distant relatives at a registered club for lunch. It was great fun to meet people I have a connection with, though haven’t known previously. All of us have an interest in family history, so the conversation flowed naturally.
Who were John and Elizabeth Hore/Hoare?
John Hoare, who was originally from County Wexford, came to Australia in 1801. Researcher, Graham Lewis believes he enlisted in the Royal Navy at the Port of London on September 7, 1795. Initially he was on HMS Royal William, and soon afterwards HMS Impregnable. He moved to the HMS Defiance in 1796. On board the HMS Defiance Hoare was one of a number of people found guilty of their involvement in a naval mutiny on board the ship in 1798. He was transported to Australia and was imprisoned both in Sydney and on Norfolk Island.
A few yeas later at St Phillip’s Church he married Elizabeth, the daughter of John and Martha Love and they had a large family. In their first few years of marriage John and Elizabeth lived at the Field of Mars before moving to the Campbelltown Districts of Airds and Appin where they began to farm with the assistance of convict labour. By 1828, John and Elizabeth had increased their land holdings to 90 acres which was cleared and fully cultivated and they had eight cattle.
I am unaware, at this stage, how they came to spend their later years of their lives and to be buried at Dapto. A possible reason is that a few of their children married people in Wollongong, and so they may have spent their latter years closer to their younger children. Researcher, Kath Raulings mentions in a comment below she believes John Hore “had land at Illawarra and was granted a convict groom and farm servant. In 1839, both father and son had land at Dapto. See 1839 NSW Gov Gaz. pp.1353, 1378 and again in 1840 pp. 152, 171, 425 and 706. Some of these entries also relate to land in Murrumbidgee district (possibly Cumberoona) and at Camden. I have a feeling I remember seeing in one of the gazettes that there was some land transferred or given between the Hores and Rixons around Dapto. Hope this might help.”.
John died on April 25, 1862 (6420/1862), while Elizabeth died on March 3, 1878 (448/1878).
As it’s the 150th anniversary of John’s death in 2012, I guess it’s no surprise the inscription on the headstone has faded with time.
A lovely, fascinating day…
And with thanks to Terry, I’ve managed to locate a photograph of the grave of my great-great grandfather, Thomas Rixon.
7 thoughts on “West Dapto Catholic Cemetery”
No connection of your John Hoare to Broken Hill?
Hi Andrew, yes quite possibly. The family is large and spread far and wide, especially throughout regional NSW and up into Queensland. I’m part of the family with Hoare spelling, though there are lots of Hore spelling descendants. I also understand there are some Haws. And of course there’s another spelling and I’m quite sure we have a few of those too. James
Hi James I know this is an old article but I came across it while I was researching the Governments proposal to place a jail in this area which would span a huge site at Kembla Grange. I’m not sure if you already know about this but it includes the cemetery smack bang in the middle of it. The cemetery is the only area currently zoned correctly for the prison . It obviously has huge historical significance and is still in use. We believe loved ones should not be able to rip and friends and family able to visit not surrounded by a maximum security criminals. We are fighting this location for many reasons as it will also be on the boundary of many young families. I thought you may like to know. If you’d like to know more you’re welcome to contact me or visit Residents against West Dapto jail on FB or visit http://www.nokemblagrangeprison.com/
oops I meant should be able to RIP
Thanks Mary for the info. I’d heard about this a few weeks ago, as the information was passed on in relation to today’s Rixon Reunion. Good luck with your campaign.
Hi James . I hope your reunion went well. This is obviously a huge part of a proud history for you. I hope you have emailed our Gov officials and if you would like a copy of the petition to perhaps sign or distribute to your reunion members please email email@example.com. It will take all of us to fight this . Thanks Mary